Nursing on 2 years old=bad parenting?

Yes, I am in the mood for a debate.

It is WarumWarum that it is looked at BAD PARENTING, if is allowed a child to use a pacifier, if they are over one year old, if a child still uses one bottle, if they are 2 years old, if a child must let mommy or daddy still weigh her/it/them to sleep, if "however, it be they 7 years old for a child, in order to nurse at the age of two, OK if they have TEETH and can feed itself obviously?

Now, I believe, that nursing is a wonderful matter, but if a child is 3 or 4 years old and is still placed to the breast, I think, there is some wrong one. I don\'t think es\'s over the BABY and his/its needs, it is about the MOTHER and HER/ITS/THEIR needs.

Any MATURE and Nicht-Confrontational-Antworten? We are all adults.... Mietfrist\'s behält this on a ripe level. We all have opinions and es\'s O.K., about her/it/them auszudrücken, but, to be, troubles as respectfully as possible. And if what I said, somebody gekränkt has, I apologize.

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The natural disaccustoming age for it to nurse children is between the ages of 2 and 8, 3 being the average. The WHO recommends nursing should continue after two years of living as it, you yearn as wished both from mother and child"

I allow my son to self, you disaccustom. Es\'s the healthiest, natürlichste matter for him/it!

WENNWENN I feed should fill, I would allow my son to self, you disaccustom also from the bottle/pacifier. I würde bottle care practices, according to every time if he/it both, I would hold him/it, used.

A good mother never would force a child to nurse,; during a mother emotionally from outstretched nursing profits, if her/its/their child Selbst-entwöhnt didn\'t push her/it/them longer it with one year.

I was fed formula AND drank from one bottle at home, until I was in 8! No shame here! My Bruder\'s never went on one year or two, I found comfort with it für longer! Each child is different!

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through Poosocks-Brust, it is best even if they are in 2, 3 years old
, to be, on to a mother and the child, if the time is to be held,

through the attendant of 8-13-2010 well my son Fällig on baby is 11 months old and i in #3 pumps and pushed through from the day into a sipy-Tasse, and breast feeds to him/it befor, he/it goes to the bed un pregnant with my second and my plan at breast feeding both of them, the i dont all wrong one with it sees,

it is much beside dollies other cultural views, plain and simple. That becomes, what is taboo in the U.S., throughout other places of the world assumed, like Africa. I believe, thereß we our minds should open, and recognizes, that each parent has another way to pull up her/its/their children, and a way is not perfect. It is the norm, in order to nurse 5-6 years long, in some cultures and babies potty trained until by 6 months! In others, it is strange, there, To nurse ß at old two, and potty before 3 trains? Almost ungehört from! LOL

through? MW.M?... healthy i agrees w/you with 1 over pacifier end, while the bottle finishes with 2. i\'ve never gets this. but then i\'ve really never gave matters, that contradict itself like it, much attention.

as far as breast feeding. the hängt from mother and child from. a child becomes entw for itselföhnen, if they are ready, therefore why it is dreadful, it the child, to allow, to let said his/her, if enough suffices.
my most recent son disaccustomed himself full age with 11 months and 3 weeks. he/it rejected the breast and went für table meal exactly in. some entwöhnen late.

You either are in the U.S. or the UK, that the social assumed" "time won\'t pass ages 2, in consideration of it and say even others, no age handed over 1. this is a new view on breast, that actually itself ernährt, and if you should visit other countries, her/its/their babies place auf\'t disaccustoms full age until 4 or 5 yrs. es\'s completely normally and assumed in her/its/their company. therefore, the old-age matter is more a regional and social debate as really still something.

In consideration of, that there are more undeveloped countries, as the terrestrial average for disaccustoming would develop, age 4 is. i dont believes, thereß it everything has, w/lack the maturity or need of the mother, to do.

Only because has teeth old a 2 yr, any 1 yr olds also does, you don\'t think that they are ready exclusively for too solid meal. each child is different and times each Kind\'s, too entwöhnen, is different. i dont agrees a blanket w/assigning "Time period" on SOMETHING for a child. i persdont breast feed handed over to 1 yr önlich, but that is my preference and my election. others has her/its/their own preference and particularly based on this, which für her/its/their family best is, and what is the best for her/its/their child.

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oh only FYI for the breast milk should be in a sippy-Tasse after old 18 mths-2 yrs-Menge. das\'s a nice thought, but pumping doesn\'t work für everyone. could not do any problems my son i as a nurse the whole day, but every time i bemühte itself, to pump for somebody, him/it other to feed, that i are hardly added 2 oz from one of both side, would arrive, I would need all the day in order to work for a feeding upward. other matters work für other people, really hates others this people judge i over something as trivial as breast feeding, that is a natural matter, and exactly which breasts were done for it! a two yr old won\'t understand the sexual effects of a breast and is confused "" except if the parents have gigantic laps in judgment and allow it, said 2 yr to old access, content ripens to "the "bad parenting would be" leaves.

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Mother of 4, 13 y/o-Sohn, almost 11 y/o-Sohn, 3 y/o-Tochter and 1 y/o-Sohn,

E, that I nursed my daughter until her/it/them, 1 1/2, was through col, I agree after 2, seems one little strange, but sometimes, he/it thinks Dr. and the mommy his/its consent, is a personal matter
her/its/their son has a friend, who made fun of me, i and still is on a bink and a sippy-Tasse, that he/it is 5 1/2,

I believe that breast milk is the best if that is your election. I was at home, and it was cheap and zweckmäßig.

I matter we, as parents to judge other parents. It brings you to it, itself better too fühlen, if somebody else does something, is more badly than you.

from Kellie R, some people do, because religious reasons,some-Leute does it, because they say, does it them near there children. Believes I, if your child can then chew her/it/them shouldn a steak, \'t is on your breast.

from Vegan_Mo... I agrees Dolly. Social decency seems in our culture to indicate, thereß she/it itself nurses, in any age is taboo. Heaven prohibits, thereß a mother, in public, her/its/their baby to breast placed, even if she/it is covered, but another mother gives one bottle to her/its/their baby while the child is not even held, but in an auto seat or a stroller, and it is perfectly okay.

Yes, with 17 months, my daughter still nurses some for comfort. Therefore this something. She/it still needs Mommy and if she/it some good Nährstoffe from it, that, gets out, \'s as well like good. A few weeks ago, she/it had the flu. The single meal, f,ür this into her/it/them itself interested, milk was. ICH\'m completely certainly nursed her/it/them für long periods of time, to fill not only her/its/their stomach, but because she/it sick and wanted Mommy startles and was.

My daughter is a natural baby. You/they erwärmte itself never for a pacifier or one bottle. She/it gets on occasion a sippy-Tasse tide. On the weekend, ich\'m, that goes to a conference. DeshalbDeshalb, you, as I für some days at the end of last year went, I went my brother and his/its family before my brother to Kuwait, my husband will either supplement with organic soy formula, she/it took the last time I the bottle, surprises, or with any organic one settles soy milk. Hopefully, she/it will continue like the last time to nurse. , We still were in the airport as we sat down in order to work as a nurse. She/it nursed more because she/it was again with Mommy, as this, which she/it für liquid or meal did. As we came home, she/it nursed one hour long if she/it goes normally 30-45 minutes long.

This is that of course, what I believe, and the way, that it intended God.

from Jillian ~ * Cohen\'s mummy * ~ first from one bottle and the breast is two different matters, teeth don\'t have anything to do with care, babies can be born with teeth. 22 years is the minimum recommendation of the WHO, Immunit has UNICEF, ABA and much more nursingäten and is especially good for children, that have metabolic disorders or are picky-Esser. 2 years long, to nurse, a Frau\'s reduces significantly risked für breast, ovary, and cervical cancer. therefore, während yours an opinion is, that mine is a fact. Children aren\'t, to drink breast milk of a cow, that she/it will intend to drink breast milk of a human being, meant. the drinking of Kuh\'s-Milch of bottle doesn\'t have, all benefits do, that drink breast milk of the breast. I nurse my toddler and it doesn\'t give any way in Gottdie\'s \'s creation i it makes für me, i, in order to think like you, uses until trained me i. indeed in the Bible, Koran, sp, and many others religieyelet certificates it speaks from children, who are drunk at the breast to 3 and 4. did you also know Juliet, romeo and Juliet, was done as nurses until her/it/them 3 were? it uses, in order to be the norm and like human children biologically certain was, ouch, To disaccustom ßer of the company, \'s-Sichten the breast and the laziness of the world changed this. If it weren\'t für my son\'s needs then definitely now would not work as a nurse he/it, would become him/it. Many people place auf\'t believes at drinking the milk of another animal. now, if there youover nachdenken,ist \'s, he/it quite nauseates it, not?

2 years long nursing and beyond measures THIS recommended is, why it is called no "bad parenting,"

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Works my 22 months as a nurse old, whoever never took a pacifier, and only bottle uses while i was with the work until he/it was 11 months,

from AMOFO?ST.... the world determines the average for disaccustoming, is 4 years old. EsEs is only this society, that this unnatürliche phobia developed into the obvious, you thank God.

through my_sunsh.... the pacifier and the bottle are artificial imitations of the breast, so only because a recommendation is applicable to her/it/them, you don\'t think that it is applicable to the "original." Pacifiers and bottles are detached Stücke, and an older child is more likely to carry her/it/them by the whole day, that is bad for jaw development, and for the teeth bad. But, with nursing, one, older child the most probably only works as a nurse, a couple times a care 2yo one day, for a solid period of time, still wants to explore, you do other matters.

If you think biologically about it, if you stop to nurse in a young age, you must replace this, you milk with something, which intimidates ie milk. It doesn\'t make any sense, thereß Kühe-Milch for a child healthy is, as human milk. Es\'s zweckmäßiger, but it never is again healthy. A child, who drinks untill ages at the breast in 3, or 4 muß maybe never to Kühe-Milch at all is disaccustomed. My daughter had difficulties of digesting of Kühe-Milch and ihm\'s actually one of the most usual meal of children is allergic to it. Nursed you/they, until she/it needed no more, milk you as a clamp in her/its/their food. As no more she/it in old four, you, the is demanded, entwöhnte, you milk for her/its/their protein and her/its/their calcium, and other Nährstoffe-Milch provides. The most nursing ones tollders and older children eat all matters a cow, whom milk-drinker child would become. Konly the human milk replaces ühe-Milch, all other is they for resembling. People seem to this older, to think aren nurslings, \'t that eats other meal. i\'m certainly this only is, because so it mißverstanden has. My Tochter\'s-Nahrung is excellent.

I assume that it would be difficult for somebody, that never did an older child than a nurse, in order to understand, that it is not at all about the mother. The mother is normally more than ready to be let it go; I was OK with my daughter, that from the time entwöhnt that was she/it in 16mo but she/it wasn\'t ready. Care is für alot the children very important and only, because earlier, most children are forced to disaccustom, her/its/their need isn, \'t eased. Es\'s not thereover, to do them a baby, or over the parent, who takes control,; it gives small precious that has a 3yo inspection in his/its life across, and it actually is useful, him/it control over a safe, but meaningful decision, to give. If there youover thinks, care is something, which she/it on to it wants to give, but they want to continue also to other matters; therefore the decision apt, and they will do, this decision, a decision, is a very important development step to part going from something, which they love. It encourages independance, Proze thoughtß and growing up, contrary to popular belief through those, that don\'t have it witnessed/experienced.

I was encouraged by my daughter\'s doctor, pediatrician and a nutritionist to continue, bygone age rotates out to work one as a nurse, as she/it was small for her/its/their old, ideal for her/it/them, and human milk is better for her/it/them than Kühe-Milch. She/it threw allmählich some nursing sessions one, for Kühe-Milch, that produced it she/it, problems with it had until she/it nursed twice per day, then once per day, then as soon as every few days and then, she/it said one day, with old four and a half, me, that she/it was ready nursing. She/it was proud of her/its/their decision, and if she/it to theit believes ück as she/it nursed it, \'s a glad memory; more of a feeling, as reminding actually at care. She/it seems also a healthy opinion over the human female body, to develop,; different than I, that was extremely shy and prudish. She/it doesn\'t have any ground, gl,ätten you with old-age eight, that breasts are sexually. Why würden she/it? You/they hasn\'t taught, beschämt, to be. You/they weiß that appropriates socially es\'s for girls in order to carry tops and she/it does, but she/it is not ashamed by her/its/their body.

As showed to work nurses in order to age for us in four in order to only have had benefits.

I sometimes calm down old my eight years rosk to sleep, she/it is she/it sick or fall, and I sit with my 10 yo-Sohn, that disaccustoming in the age of one was forced, if he/it is excited until he/it falls asleep. only, because they grow up, doesn, \'t means, thereß of this i still not yet the mommy can be.

from Thrifty9.... AH yes, God prohibits that a toddler gets special nutrition and comfort of his/its mother. Don\'t, that you know, thereß babies should be left to cry itself/themselves and to comfort?

Of course, if an older child or even an adult excited, that you would comfort her/it/them in the form of the embraces, is for itself kiss and comfort words, and so on... therefore, why the devil should babies, and to must toddlers learns to comfort the whole time for itself? Believe it or not, a two year old still is gefühlsmäßig incapable from it, to get done with all of the burden of the life, and needs, you comfort in the form of something: nursing, one bottle, that sucks her/its/their thumb, and so on you need a stuffed animal, a blankie, also additional nutrition. Why is magic line, is drawn with one year old, where it is in order to nurse to it from being the best matter to be bad? Every the one year old is different. Any Bed, to be comforted ürfnis more nutrition, any quiet need. Get thereover.

My one and one half year old is no cow, she/it is a human being, therefore the logical side of my brain tells me that this human milk is the best matter for her/it/them.

from Kelly V, breast milk is the better than Kühe-Milch... the longer you can tolerate nourishing the healthier and more clever breast the child!!!

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I dont believes, that a child should on 12 months of fed breast,..
my husband was after 3 years old fed breast, in another country,
i dont knows, whether this is, why, but his/its 2 frontal teeth are made few as if he/it never had lost her/it/them, & she/it was his/its baby teeth..
my son was with 1 months from the paci,
Breast on 6 months bc i approached pregnant...
and almost from the bottle with 11 months

through [Christina] mommy to Caden and C...

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it believes ii that each matter, that mentioned you in the first sales, is more badly parenting including nursing at old 2. through this time, they know, thereß something for a boob is, and they will calculate soon, through tv, ect, that it is used for a sexual purpose, not if working as a nurse, but other times, and this could confuse her/it/them.

through? Kyleigh\'s-Mutti? (, Heather,

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I agree. I place auf\'t reckons with my daughter, who doesn\'t have any pacifier or bottle on 18 months. And I think inappropriately es\'s to breast feed after this same age. ICH\'ll probably brings a Strauß of thumbs down, but if they, that her/its/their child still gets breast milk, wants believe I, that it should be from a sippy-Tasse. The boob is, only one comfort like a pacifier thinks, and is shouldn, \'t at a certain age. I do under attitude, thereß itself ages to child from child distinguishes, but bottle, breast or binky should go everything through the age of two.