Do you need ideas in an adult, that places two young children to sleep!!! HELP!?

My wife and I have two children. A three year old one Mad little and an one year old boy. You/they both müssen gets to sleep, before I from the work, I late work, comes home. You/they muß before him/it in the bed is. WieWie my wife she/it to sleep can place, während he/it and screeming in the bed with them steps, my daughter still leaves us in the bed until she/it falls asleep. I weiß, I know, but wir\'wieder lenient parents, now, my wife needs the boy for ween of nursing, but that was the single matter, that held him/it quietly, while they lay in my Töchter-Bett. It is a real problem. Any ideas?

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Does your son sleep through the night? This veralter matters. There are ways to place two children to the bed. Her/its/their wife muß the one, to decide about itself, can commit her/it/them doing to what. I tried the walk away and ließ she/it method cries. I couldn\'t does it. My daughter (same age as yours) learned, thereß mommy Schwester gets to sleep, must help. Her/its/their daughter is accustomed to having an opinion in it as matters are done. If you want to continue this, you have a family meeting. Speak with her over the problem. Simply attach importance it to her/its/their level. Guarantee, thereß she/it knows, that you want to hear her/its/their ideas, how brother is to be brought to sleep, but this mommy and the daddy will decide. We have a system of rewards, that apply with bedtime. If guidelines are followed, my daughter gets to decide as she/it goes to the bed. I place auf\'t lay beside her/it/them, but will sleep in the room. If she/it or screams get up for her/it/them, only rewards f loosesür this night. As große sister is she/it to be read in charge of a torch for it, one or two books in her/its/their bed, or, to concern her/its/their way around the door better. As Große sister is her/its/their work to put silence, until baby asleep is. This results f 90 percent of the timeür us asleep into older sibling. Last way out is Babytor near the T switched onür and a jerk upward.
As for disaccustoming the boy. Don\'t begins in bed the course of time. This should the last Fütterung going is. Place milk into a soft Brustwarzen-sippy-Tasse. We use Nubby. It is most like it, f,ür my baby, to work as a nurse. Lie beside the child, as if you ouchßer Don nursed, rises \'t. you for some moments and is behind you down. Schließlich will be you capable, the cup to get up and to take. (Milk can be breast milk or any other milk,

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Thanks for all your answers. Answers to the ideas:

1. We können\'t rearranges her/its/their bedtimes. If we too früh the boy to sleep placed, he/it wakes up with 4:00AM ready ones in order to begin the day.
2. Giving of him/it a sippy-Tasse with milk. He/it gewann\'t drinks it.
3. bring her/it/them alone to sleep. The best idea, but hard.

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through murph, the emo i thinks, that your wife of only your daughter should be too bulky in order to run alot becaus eif, you let run during the day with night alot, you time u, the only wanna goes to immediately sleep i, knows the boy places you, that it happens alot to me as foir, only away to do this something your doing in order to bring him/it to sleep if it then works, it works O.K.

through palmermo.... a matter, that worked for me and my 4,... my eldest is 10, and my most recent is 1 months... I collects together for them everything, and I start to read a book. Normally es\'s something, which they don\'t understand, but I use my " Mommy reading voice, that places It for them everything, in order to sleep in a matter of the minutes. SieSie könnten also weening the daughter to it, to go, tries to sleep in the room with you, but not in the bed. This way still has her/it/them you there, but mommy can force the 1 yr old, without her/it/them to Stören.

through texas_an.... first from hold, that is in the bed with your daughter, you read her/it/them a book and leave you the room. As yearn wanting as yours in the bed with her lies ihr\'ll wants, thereß you in the bed with her lies. I placed 2 children of me to the bed every night, and I have it f with a total of 4 different childrenür almost 15 yrs done. I did it with my nephews, that 19 months ouchßer of the time, that she/it were 1 til, that were she/it in 15, are & 13. And I now do it with my two children, 14 and 11 months the 14 yr old is w mental level of 18 months old, you, profoundly more disabled I, that was said, a book read and gets out his/its so simple one from the room, if she/it cries, and she/it becomes some minutes of going in the room to theück waits, communicates you her/it/them his/its time for the bed and leaves you again the room. It könnte some attempts takes, or some nights however it will work.

through retired, you asked the children whether you could ask this question? Who are the parents? If she/it controls you your life leaves, you now wait until they turn 14 and 17.

through davec4re... 1 lets, that play her/it/them with no nap all the day,
2 softness the 1year old things a sippy-Tasse with milk in it,he to old for breast feeding,should is you at regular meal meanwhile
3 don\'t give them any meal with sugar in them before the bed
a nice warm bath and a healthy small thing give them 4 before the bed
they placed 5 into her/its/their own beds and inform them of good night, that you love her/it/them and they tomorrow will see and go, the room.they of the situation doesn\'t control the control you,take back.

through totspota.... wow I believes you, that types are walked, all across. Timeärts to step and to be parents instead of the friends. You/they muß a routine like bath, history, the bed, places. Begin every night and each stick for him/it at the same time to it. A 3 year old is sufficiently old in order to pass itself/themselves to the bed you read her/it/them the bedtime history, k,üssen you her/its/their goodnight and her/its/their walk from the room. Alto muß he/it for this one year on a sippy-Tasse, him/it, is, gleich\'s-Geldstrafe if she/it, that he/it remains on the breastmilk, wants can pump her/it/them it and it in one cup places, he/it is at the point, where any independence to learn, will require. IchIch promises you, this is the best dafinvolved totally ür..., but it will be time consuming and difficult for the beginning. Stick to your pistols, and everything will be past soon:) wants to see you, how what your children will be, if you keep, because you are, "lenient" parents? Watch Supernanny.

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through chinamig... finishes you to be lenient. Reduce the children and walk away. Exist, thereß she/it in the bed remains. The first night becomes difficult für everyone is, but it must be done. The daughter becomes and scream cries and from the bed comes out. Mom muPuts back of ß she/it and goes without lying with her.

His/its time for the parents, to start, to take control of that, what happens to bed period in your house. With 3, your daughter should fähig is to be fallen asleep from itself. With 1 his/its time für the boy, to be also put on alone.

through math_pro... doesn\'t leave you the people, who berate you, bring down you. You/they know what you need to do and you, like the parents knows, what für you and your family best is. This said, there are several matters, that you try, könnten.

My first inclination is the sequence of the bed times to be rearranged. We have old boys and a three and one half year one one and half a year old Mad little. We müssen often the two gets an adult to sleep leaves. The easiest was to be placed the boy in first and then on a time in the Mad little any, to have one. You/they schif this special time corrodes, and we do it so.

Another possibility is the carrot to be tried, and is from other described method. Any work and a time will need this to come on the best way, but before patience, you will do fine.

The idea not to leave them any nap is really bad. If my children get her/it/them over tired getting, to sleep with night, can be very hard, and they often then wake up during the night.

Luck.

from L, It is hard work for only one child. but the best i can say, is the three year old to be gotten, dafür, to help in bed time the course of time, that to lay down one year old. and let remain her/it/them you on a bißchen 10 - 15 min last shouting, that she/it helps, and that becomes part of her/its/their schedule, that then or bath is read, or this something her/its/their routine ever is. and load it mommy, whom you make for it, können. she/it hätte alone duration with mommy:,

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