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I am a stay with Heimatmutter with a 2 year old and 3 months old baby. I never come to the senses anytime, time can hardly find i to take a shower. My husband has a very stressful work and understands i, thereß he/it his/its friends must come out and give a farewell on his/its days, but i becomes very jealous of his/its freedom. Maybe I can come out as soon as everyone couple weeks, but if it makes i, jargon is dafür, you yearn, because i and my baby of lived reception to one bottle nurses, and feels i very guilty, if leaves the children i. I become very excited if he/it goes because only duration wants to spend i with him/it, after managed the children i to the bed, and has daf onceür any adult conversation. As can i over this anger, that i has to him/it, gets? is it normal?

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beside Lelouch Way, to write, incorrectly, you resent.

through armykng2.... yes is it normally for you, about his/its freedom bad-increases, because you gave up yours for your children. But you become thereover, I promise, gets. Give him/it a small bißchen time. Ask him/it, f,ür the children, to provide, so that once you and a while can come out. Only you pump your milk so that you won, \'t muß there is. Es\'s, to about sometimes come out, and your husband will understand healthy.

through laidback.... you want any cheese to go with this yowl?

through the wisdom of grandmother, my mommy was in the habit of placing a lil-Zucker weened in my bottle and me from the breast.

from Mohan talc with your husband politely and
Make your thought to +ve (both)
Her/its/their every problems of the Familienlebens solved

Pray to God for help

through scurries No you.. this is not beautiful. You/they are not annoyed. You/they are treated unfairly. It is not acceptable. You/they don\'t do your relationship any favor by being, "" understands. You/they have your borders, and you become over the edge pushed.

from Barb Outhere with it Hubby regular depressed time gets, he/it has any day on that, what seems, to be, away, and goes out to friends, but you can hardly find time to take a shower."? No miracle your annoyed! I wäre also. Wo\'s his/its share of the load? Wo\'s his/its worry and his/its attention? Wo\'s Ihre time from, or times with friends? You/they are both parents, and BOTH m,üssen responsibility for the children takes, and for each other. Why home kann\'t he/it stay and gets any time loosely for you? Exhibition is schön. You/they earns BOTH this.

With reference to the bottle matter, I could do some suggestions, from one, passed, breast feeding mommy to another one?
Do you express a feed or use formula in the bottle? WennWenn his/its formula, maybe the baby is simply not used for the taste and it is rejected. If his/its Mama\'s-Milch, brand certainly is with the right temp.
Take the trouble, maybe it is to be brought him/it to be decreased his/its shirt, if it lives with the bottle, that the skin, in order to skin, turns, helps the baby to feed. I shouldnmuSays does ß \'t, that the baby should be held to feed, do I?
Try other nipples and other bottles, each baby has her/its/their own preference. And if you check the current installment, too fast or too slowly the Babys-Chance will tip over at feeding.

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from Hobgobli.... before you know it, you will send her/it/them in order to train and it will do the baby, who sits, you will have much free time, but he/it still the stressful work has that is placed gonna into an early grave for him/it.
Also in some years, they essentially become self sufficiently, and you only must inform them, what to do, is, and they do it.

The most important work is home manufacturer and mother in the world for women, maybe the most important work for the human race, but is not always glamorous and you must wait for the bribe at time. I understand this although the reward is value well it, although, if you make it right.

Her/its/their husband is a man, but a man is only one person. If he/it works, pays the bills, loves you and your children, doesn,mi,ßhandelt you or the children \'t, do you really have all so bad one for him/it? You/they könnten asks, whether can accompany you and the children him/it, however, in order to visit his/its friends. You/they place auf\'t to lie only needs, you tell him/it, you m,öchten more frequently gets out the house and family stuff together does.

Be not egoistic, I know a woman, who left her/its/their husband, my friend, your thinking for the exact same reason over and she/it is not better at it. Now muHolds down of ß she/it a work and provides for the children, and she/it is not better at it. Plus, as she/it asked her/its/their husband about wouldn, gains her/it/them \'t theück.

THE WORST MATTER, THAT YOU/THEY DO, PROFICIENCY, IS TO BE TAKEN THE TROUBLE ITSELF, HIM/IT TO VISES, TO BE REMAINED TO HOME. he/it könnte it does, but he/it will resent the devil from you for it, and then, you will condemn to fail your relationship. Tell him/it, your beginning, it bad-increases that he/it went, and places auf\'t wait til your angry one to tell him/it, because it will come out very negatively.

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through optimists, there is not any baby, who won\'t take any bottle. if is h/she sufficiently hungry, they will take one bottle.

Do you not have any friends than your husband differently? If es\'s adult conversation, that you want, you können at the telephone with friends speaks or on-line.

I don\'t believe that you should resent your husband. You/they only Ned, to adjust about itself at your new situation.