How would you negotiate with your other mommy friends?

I was approximate 13 years long best friend with somebody because we were in high school in 15. A bi moved meanwhile wir\'veßchen and now is back within 20 minutes of each other and both, you have 2 children. I thought \' this becomes groß is. A good friend and we now have Ehemänner and children, it, \'ll is perfect.\'

But not very much so. It, everything, seems over him/it we can talk, Mamazeug is. Poopy diapers and nurses, cute baby clothing, and so on also over housework. How sie\'ll-Anruf, in order to inform me of this, which she/it für is done the day or me calls, about her/it/them employs to hold, while she/it does her/its/their housework. ICHMgeldstrafe with him/it everyone once into a while, but this are several times w every dayährend the day.

I have her/it/them in demand when she/it wants to get out of the house to meet other mommies for dinner, and get any adult convo. But she/it says Nr.. It came want her/it I to the point, that her/its/their husband called me bcos unripe, thereß she/it itself for beverages and the dinner a night meets.

Am I therefore egoistic? I place auf\'t, I have many friends in the area and like, because it my mommy friends as well as my being fähig has to talk about this, which on into the world goes. My husband went, and I thought uns\'d, St is from each otherützender. Everytime, on which I bring something, a while before the election, she/it becomes really quiet and talks over diapers or as she/it let 3 loads of the laundry done.

Should I ask her/it/them about him/it what upward is? Although been friends so long wir\'ve, there are many underlying matters if everyone is surprised. As in, ich\'ve erwähnte somewhat for years, and she/it stopped to speak 3 months long with me.

Thank for advance.

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Lillilou, that I this some times did. But honestly I likes have company and Don\'t much. But it sucks.

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no, you are not egoistic.. simply normally..
imim moment also be my friend pregnant, and i so... she/it has all her/its/their ultrasound pics on her/its/their facebook as well as fornightly-Bildern theirs of growing push knocked against.. most matters of her/its/their status must do with her/its/their pregnancy... i personally didn\'t post any ultrasound pics hav, i simply doesn\'t feel right over it, or one of me in my underwear, that tosses up my stomach,.. i knows, that, as soon as the baby comes, she/it will be, simply like your friend... every customs will turn conversation about her/its/their baby for itself..
while i tlaking enjoys over my pregnancy and joined a prenatal exercies-Klasse,.. i has a time and a place for it.. it is not my life 24/7 and it my baby doesn\'t mean less any i-Liebe as she/it does,.. i only knows that NOT people ALWAYS over me and boy wants to talk, and where she/it will place i into the school, and which shadow will paint the nursery i and which work i wants, that they are there,....
You/they want adults and stimulating of conversation.. i can tell.. only because you have, a baby doesn\'t think that you are ONLY one mommy,.. you still is a woman, who enjoys the company of others, the house gets out and has some the I time.. i fell in the exact same way.. and it is dreadful for somebody to say that you are \'egoistic\',.. simply, because you want to go out a night,..
seineseine hard meeting populates, the feeling knows i, un a city girl pulled to the country recently! ehh, that itself abmüht, ppl, to meet,.. besides speaks you with her the way, that you said it on it here,.. otherwise becomes it, rehearses becomes worse.. and no, Sie\'wieder not in the injustice simply, because not you the exact same opinion on as she/it has,

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Thanks, I feel the totals completely, I was a woman before a mommy matter and the way gladly still feels!

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through lillilou no, I understand. I have also this friend, that me the wöchentlichen report about her/its/their nursing schedule gives and over my children will ask supremely mine like theirs to tell me only then. I simply check my telephone calls.

from Rachel Hmm... almost like she/it sound, fear of having about her/its/their own opinion has. I kannspricht \'t directly with the situation, because I should not see do it there, but like controlling is, you are economical for her? You/they könnte over still something talks, doesn\'t want because he/it doesnwill \'t, that she/it talks about still something, and it is not the anger worth? Only one supposition...

Finally, you answered your own question.... It is what is it. They it, that goes, to be the type of friend that rotates around children and housework. I place auf\'t thinks, thereß you egoistic is, I believe that however, you could be in very different places. New friendships too schließen, becomes more difficult, as we become older,... we places auf\'t time or energy like us has, did, as we were in 15! I würde looks at to make other friendses for entertaining... I found, that Cafemama was a big means to it to find people in my area, and we go out for the dinner and the beverages every other week.

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